WHAT MEN REALLY WANT - 17 SECRETS TO PULL HIM CLOSER INSTEAD OF PUSHING HIM AWAY
Want the Perfect Thing to Say to Men to Get the Exact Result You Want?
Simple techniques you can use right away • My most powerful secrets • Proven results with women like You
Simple techniques you can use right away • My most powerful secrets • Proven results with women like You
WHAT MEN SECRETLY WANT - 17 SECRETS TO PULL HIM CLOSER INSTEAD OF PUSHING HIM AWAY
Want the Perfect Thing to Say to Men to Get the Exact Result You Want?
How many times have you panicked before sending a text to a guy you like because you were afraid he’d reject you? How many times have you felt paralyzed without the right words, worried that you’d give him the wrong impression or say something that would backfire?
It’s a common problem with real-life
consequences...
YOU MIGHT...
LOSE HOURS...
analyzing and AGONIZING over every text or email… replaying the words, wishing you’d said things differently
AVOID HAVING HARD, BUT ESSENTIAL CONVERSATIONS
because you’re worried it will backfire.
STAY OUT OF THE DATING WORLD ALTOGETHER...
because it just seems too confusing and too complicated.
HAVE DEEP EMOTIONAL PAIN...
when you wonder whether you’ll ever meet someone you really like, because you never seem to, and every time you do, it feels like it’s never reciprocated.
This is exactly why I created His Secret Obsession. My quick-start guide includes:
1. 17 Secrets of male psychology so you can take quick action to attract the man you want most. And all of them have in common one emotion that is deep inside a man's reptilian brain. It's so powerful and so consuming that it can make a man come running to you, no matter how convinced you are that you can't be with him.
2. 42 scripts and examples you can customize in every difficult situation –
from
''I’m trying to win the affections of a guy who doesn’t see me that way yet.''
and
''Things started great, but now he’s drifting away.''
to
''My man ignores me. He has grown cold and distant''.
and
''It’s Over, But I want him back.''
These secrets and perfectly-crafted examples go beyond theory to show you how to take quick, confident action in your love life and get incredible results with men.
When It Comes to Talking About Who You Are, What You Want, and What You Need, Many Women Struggle…
Poor communication is to blame for 99% of problems in new and existing relationships. If we express ourselves badly, we upset people or drive them away. Or we fail to say what we honestly mean and get less than we deserve – no one wants that. And because we never learn another way of communicating, we can get stuck repeating the behaviors that are sabotaging our love lives…
HERE’S THE SOLUTION:
1
AVOID THE MOST COMMON STUMBLING BLOCKS ON YOUR PATH TO LOVE.
My secrets and example scripts cover EVERY stage of relationships (even the trickiest ones). You’ll never be caught off guard without knowing what to do or say again.
2
FIND THE PERFECT EXAMPLE SCRIPT FOR EVERY SITUATION.
I give you perfectly-crafted psychological techniques and example scripts for every situation or conversation you have with him. The point is not to use them verbatim (although you could!). I teach you the principles behind WHY they work, so you can make them your own... and get the results you deserve!
3
ENJOY ULTIMATE CONTROL AND FREEDOM IN YOUR LOVE LIFE.
Because I teach you WHY the techniques and words work, not just WHAT to say, you’ll always have a “True North” on your Communication Compass; equipped to handle anything that comes at you in the future.
HELLO!
I’m James Bauer
I’ve Helped Millions of Women Get the Relationships They Deserve With Practical, Proven Advice
As the leading dating authority and confidence coach for women, I’ve helped millions of women get the love life of their dreams through my bestselling books, sold-out live seminars, and step-by-step online coaching and training videos. And I’ll do the same for you.
My approach is honest, authentic and practical; so that you not only get the relationship you deserve but feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
I’ve been featured on:
The 7 (of the 17) Secrets You Will Hate Yourself For Not Knowing
Secret #10
Silent Action Signals
These signals are “Silent” because you don’t even have to say a single word yet he’ll get tunnel vision for you like love at first sight, even from across the room.
You’ll know it’s working when he starts not-so-subtly trying catch your eye and make you smile.
Secret #16
“IOU” Signal
Did you know you can actually use a man’s “selective hearing” to your advantage?
And all you have to do is swap out 3 simple words that you say every day.
It’s every man’s secret turn on.
It fills him with a deep trust in you that makes him see you as his only confidant.
He’ll even start opening up to you before he opens up to his best guy friends.
Secret #17
Damsel In Distress Signal
Are you tired of him being on his phone all the time, being sarcastic and dismissive, or never being there in the moment with you?
This signal lets you turn the tables by switching him into “Protect and Serve” mode.
He'll be the one falling all over himself to gain YOUR attention and admiration.
Secret #12
Private Island Signal
Most women don't know this but there's a little-known “quality” that’s scientifically proven to be the biggest factor in who a man chooses to marry.
Every woman on earth is born with this alluring quality but if you don’t know how to use it most men won’t stick around long enough to experience that gut-level attraction that makes them want to commit.
This is the closest thing to a real “love potion” that exists.
Secret #1
The Ex-Back Signal
It’s impossible for him to ignore, resist, or "think his way out of" this.
Just drop these 12 words in a text, say them to him over phone or in person and notice how quickly he comes crawling back to you.
It’s your strongest chance to get him back and ensure that he'll never leave again.
Secret #13
The "X-Ray Question"
Not knowing where you're "at" in your relationship can be torture sometimes. Right?
That's why I can't wait to show you the "X-Ray Question" that you can innocently ask your man to put your worries to rest.
Because it lets you get inside your man's mind and hear what he wishes he could tell you... but can't.
Secret #2
The #1 Reason Men Leave Women They LOVE
This is the single most important thing you will ever read about men and commitment.
Just knowing this one thing will get you inside his mind like no woman has ever done before.
Once you know this signal, you'll never again be blindsided by his sudden distance or lack of interest.
Instead, he'll think you're reading his mind and will thank you for it every day.
With the Right Words and Signals, You Can Show Him That You’re the High-Value Woman He’s Been Searching for...
In Less Than 2 Months, He Announced His Love & Devotion
“Are you kidding me?! In less than 2 months, the man I was smitten with has announced his love and devotion to me.
He has never been married, and now is wanting to be MY husband.
I have been in multiple bad marriages. I was the worst communicator. I pushed every man away with my inability to clearly understand what he actually needed. No longer an issue.
Your advice, videos and His Secret Obsession guide have transformed the way I understand his desires and how I respond. I am forever grateful.”
- KATIE
I Used the Script from Chapter 6 and He’s Acting SO Smitten
“I received both His Secret Obsession and the free bundle of bonuses. I love them both.
Yesterday I used the ‘I could really use your help with something’ script to ask this guy I’ve been seeing for the past three months to help me get and set up a Christmas tree.
I swear the rest of the day he was acting so smitten and told me he wants to spend Christmas with me.
I’m crazy about this guy so thank you!”
- ANNETTE
Because the Trial and Error Method of Dating is Costing You Precious Time and Maybe Even the Love You Deserve…
The truth is, being successful in relationships is not simply about confidence in who we are, it’s about competence in what we do. And most people (women and men) never learn how to communicate effectively.
There are very specific psychological techniques and phrases we can say or do to a person to increase attraction. And, if we’re not careful, there are things we can accidentally say to decrease attraction.
If you don’t know the right words to say, you can’t communicate who you REALLY are in the most attractive, compelling way. And even more frustrating is when the man you’re interested in ends up with another woman (maybe even one who isn’t as good a match) because she knows this language of attraction.
You’re right. It’s not fair. So let’s level the playing field…
...I’ll show you His Secret Obsession and then YOU’LL win over other women because you’ll have BOTH: True warmth AND the ability to create and keep attraction through your language and actions.
This is 12 Years of Coaching Experience Collected into One Instant Download That You Can Read Tonight (and Use Forever)...
Every single one of the 17 secrets and scripts is a masterclass in the art of communication and psychology so you can assert yourself in a way that makes you even more irresistible to high-quality men.
You don't even have to read His Secret Obsession
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FAQ
WILL I SOUND ROBOTIC?
Not even a little. You can think of them more like guidelines if you’d rather. And because the scripts are simple, short, and teach you the psychology behind the words...it’s really easy for you to use them in a way that sounds natural.
WILL ''HIS SECRET OBSESSION'' WORK FOR ME? MY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT.
His Secret Obsession has been shown to work in a huge variety of situations. This is because it is based upon deep primal desires found in all men. Here are some of the relationship stages and situations where it has been very effective:
1. Attraction Stage
''I’m trying to win the affections of a guy who doesn’t see me that way yet. How can I get him to see me as more than a friend? Why do guys show interest and then just drift away? I know he likes me. Why won’t he just admit it?''
2. Dating but Falling Apart Stage
''Things started great and now he’s drifting away. Why won’t he commit? I want him to choose me and stop seeing other women. He’s ignoring my text''.
3. Re-Spark Stage
''We’re together but need to Re-Spark the relationship. My man ignores me. Why won’t he return my calls? He has grown cold and distant''.
4. Ex-Back Stage
''It’s Over, But I want him back. I’m trying to start over with my ex. I want things to be like when we first met''.
WHEN WILL I RECEIVE ''HIS SECRET OBSESSION'' PROGRAM?
Immediately! You’ll get instant access to the entire program, including all your bonuses that I will send to you via email. Just enter your payment information on the following secure page and then I’ll take you to your private members-only page where you’ll have full access to your ebook download and the entire ''His Secret Obsession'' video course and audio file.
WHAT IF I’M ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP?
If you’re already in a relationship, you’ll learn the words to inspire your boyfriend or husband to step up as an adoring partner, even if he was previously clueless or hopelessly unromantic.
DOES IT WORK?
YES! My advice has helped thousands of women like you get the love lives of their dreams.
“I’m just getting back into the dating world. Before, I was in scarcity mindset, but WOW, I’ve learned so much with His Secret Obsession. Now I can meet hundreds of men.” -JJ
HOW FAST WILL I SEE RESULTS?
Immediately! That’s what makes His Secret Obsession unlike any other program of its kind – you don’t need to read it cover to cover or even in order – you can flip straight to the section that has the answer you need RIGHT NOW, customize the script, adapt the secrets to your own needs and see INSTANT results.
WAIT, IS ''HIS SECRET OBSESSION'' JUST $47?
YES! You get 12 years of my most valuable insights on men in 1 quick-start guide, all for less than a manicure – a one-time payment of just $47.
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No. His Secret Obsession reveals my most powerful secrets NOT available anywhere else. (It would be impossible to go this deep – or get you results this lasting – in a quick, free YouTube video.)
WHAT IF IT DOESN’T WORK FOR ME?
I am so confident that His Secret Obsession will work for you because it has gotten results for so many women I’ve coached throughout the years. But if it doesn’t work for you for any reason, you don’t pay. Just send an email at support@beirresistible.com within 60 days of your purchase and we’ll quickly give you a 100% refund. No questions and no hassle.